FORGIVENESS

FORGIVENESS

"IT'S TOO HARD TO FORGIVE"

" BUT THEY REALLY HURT ME"

WHY SHOULD I FORGIVE THEM WHEN THEY DIDN'T EVEN SAY SORRY?"

I agree it is hard, but it's so worth it. I made a HUGE step this weekend. I carried a weight

 around for over a year that i released this weekend. Conquered a fear of forgiving and being 

in the same room as someone. It was so tough, and my anxiety was through the roof, but i 

am happy i did it. And remember....forgiving doesn't always mean you let these people back 

into your life. In fact sometimes you don't even have to tell them directly that you forgive 

them, sometimes its solely between you and God. Forgiveness isn't about releasing the other

 person from their faults, and the things they did to you,or saying "it's ok that you hurt me"

it's never ok to hurt someone. Forgiveness is about releasing the burden of carrying their

 wrong doings around with you. It's kicking them outta the space they were renting

( RENT FREE BY THE WAY!)  in your mind. Most of the time the person who was hurt 

cares way more, and longer than the person who hurt you. They go on with life, and we get   

held like a prisoner of their wrong doings. Forgiveness is taking our pain and giving it to God. 

We can pray this prayer:

Father God I come before you humbly, and thankful for my blessings. Today is my day to

 unload this junk I've been carrying with me. God here it is, all they have done 

( which He already knows by the way) Lord please take it 

from me, and release me from this pain, and constant though of hurt. Lord i right now forgive 

( name of person) because i know i am forgiven of my wrong doings. Lord please heal me. In 

Jesus's name. Amen. ♥

Sometimes it feels better when you go into detail with God about the wrong doings they have

done. It's a painful release at times, but in the end so worth it. I pray for each and every one

 of you on your road to healing, and forgiveness.